a moment for me

Filed under: around the house — admin at 1:23 pm on Wednesday, September 20, 2006


This morning, there was a young lady at the breakfast table. She was happy, secure, and busily reading something left on the table from the night before. Her interactions with her younger siblings was so kind and engaging. Where has my girl gone?

Last night I took Ellie to have her hair trimmed by my hair stylist. Ellie decided that she wanted something different (something I was sort of pushing for, hated to see the braids go though!). As I watched her in the chair looking at herself in the big mirror, I watched my little girl become transformed. Not that a haircut will do it- but I did see a glimmer of what she will be like as she matures. She was confident, witty, and able to hold a conversation with an adult.

I did get a bit emotional in my heart, but I also had to remind myself that this realization is good for me NOW. One day, this sweet girl of mine will grow even more independent and I need to be ready for it!

By the way, I’m pretty sure when she gets home from school she will be fighting with her brother and grumbling about studying for a science test. Our home is not that idealic, but thankfully there are moments!

8 Comments »

Comment by Arielle

September 20, 2006 @ 1:43 pm

She looks beautiful :) But the first thing I noticed was how much she looks like Penelope in that second picture. I had never noticed the resemblance before.

Comment by Mimi

September 20, 2006 @ 1:55 pm

She looks great!

Comment by Mimi

September 20, 2006 @ 1:55 pm

She looks great!

Comment by estea

September 20, 2006 @ 4:54 pm

I sometimes see the faintest glimmer of this in my son and the hope, oh the hope that in the distant future he will be that young man of maturity.

she is so lovely. hearts will be breaking all over by the time she is a young lady ; )

Comment by Gretchen

September 20, 2006 @ 11:26 pm

It’s so wierd but I think the top picture of Ellie looks a bit like Heidi when she was little. Love the haircut!

Comment by molly

September 21, 2006 @ 8:41 am

what a sweet little girl with her grown-up haircut. oh it is so bittersweet seeing them grow up. sweet really, but there’s that little tinge of longing for what was left behind, isn’t there?

Comment by ariana

September 21, 2006 @ 1:45 pm

I love this post. I actually stopped before I read it and thought, “Wow, Ellie’s a little lady!”

Comment by grammy

September 21, 2006 @ 11:22 pm

Hi Carol, I love the pictures and your comments.These are little mile stones in growing up.Thanks for keeping us posted.

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