meet our friend

Filed under: around the house — admin at 1:48 pm on Tuesday, May 30, 2006


The newest member of our friendship circle is “Snip”, the bird! To make a long story short, we tried to care for a chickadee fledgling and the poor thing died. After consulting with the wildlife center and following their instructions, “Stripes” went to go live in the clouds. It was very sad in our home on Saturday morning, but the kids and I perked up when my husband said we need to get a bird.

We just loved hearing the little squeaks our friend made and enjoyed staring at him/her (important to NOT be partial…especially since Ellie reads my blog) hop in its’ cage. Snip is a zebra finch and is just SO cute.

The funny thing, it’s made a friend. There is a bird from the outside that flies to the screen, hangs there for a bit, investigates, and then heads over to the nearby pine tress. It’s the cutest thing, and I promise I will get a shot of that encounter to share.

On a totally unrelated note, I went food shopping today with the youngest 2 kids and I wanted to run away! Really. I wanted to leave my cart in the middle of the store and if the kids followed…GREAT, but if they decided to stay and be lunatics…even better. I am still recovering from our time and will be consulting the calendar as to WHEN I can go by myself.

With the summer looming, I will have more kids in tow. They are great individually, but a 7, 5, and 2 year old…that makes a scary equation. Although Nathan is a teacher and will have some time at home, it doesn’t mean he is here all the time. In fact, it means his schedule (teaching, comps to complete his Masters, painting for his art classes) is erratic which gets me out of my routine. Ack.

So- when I am all crazed in public with my 2 year old, I need to remember her sweet little face in this photo below. It will take me to a much happier place or perhaps I should avoid public places with her all together and stare at “Snip”.

9 Comments »

Comment by Mimi

May 30, 2006 @ 2:26 pm

Oh yes, the dreaded grocery visit! I go in the evening with the whole family.

Anyway, great photos, welcome to the bird.

Comment by tracy

May 30, 2006 @ 2:28 pm

you have me smiling! chirp to Snip!

Comment by molly

May 30, 2006 @ 3:02 pm

i love snip–and she’s a girl i think, because she doesn’t have the little orange cheek patches. We raised finches before we moved…had babies a few times, the whole deal. It was lots of fun. And I’ve heard that they are very social…and like to be in pairs. Maybe that’s why snip enjoys the other bird. If you ever decide to get snip a friend it is very sweet– they will snuggle together on the perch, in the nest, preen each other. But I’d recommend getting another girl, or you’ll have more babies than you’d ever want!! Oh how this makes me miss those little birds!
And yes, can I EVER relate to shopping with my children. Sometimes I get back in the car and say to them, will i ever be able to shop with you two without being so frazzled and frustrated??!! they drive me crazy sometimes. and each time i say this is the last time…but necessity dictates sometimes!!

Comment by Sara

May 30, 2006 @ 4:17 pm

we had two finches when we were first married, one flew away when I was cleaning the cage outside one day and the other died shortly after! best wishes with snip :) and that’s quite an adorable market monster you have.

Comment by Patricia

May 31, 2006 @ 10:38 am

Your post reminded me of this poem by Rabindranath Tagore. It’s quite beautiful. I suppose it’s not really about the caged bird enjoying the privacy (and child-free-zone) of her cage, but I imagine that it is sometimes.

Comment by Ariana

May 31, 2006 @ 3:51 pm

I love these pictures, especially of the kids watching Snip. How fun!

Comment by madmommy

May 31, 2006 @ 9:38 pm

My almost year-old munchkin makes me wonder the same thing, especially now that his new stage is “how loud can I make noises?” to including screeching, laughing, and raspberries. Tonight I couldn’t wait for hubby to get home and take over for a minute, and have some adult conversation! But usually munchkin is better in public than at home, so I try to get out as much as possible…

Comment by Bee

June 2, 2006 @ 10:57 pm

I am sometimes struck by the intensity of my love and the exact opposite feeling depending on the situation. I love my children always, but sometimes what they put us through makes it hard to actually FEEL the love and instead we exhibit it by actually making it to the car with the children instead of abandoning them… which I also have considered. About six months ago I had to wrestle a screaming six year old boy out of the doctors office because he couldn’t take as much candy as he wanted off the receptionists counter. Every face in the waiting room was watching me and I don’t blame them for thinking I must be the absolute worst parent. I was in a state of shock as I wrestled open the door and tried to carry a squirming, hitting, kicking 45lb child out the door. He kicked the back of my seat all the way home and screamed and yelled at me. I was stunned. I have to point out that this sort of behavior was absolutely out of the ordinary. I suppose my own shock was part of what kept me from reacting in a way that would have had the child permanently removed. I am still a little shocked thinking back to that day. Anyway, you made it! Survived another day, and were even loving enough to reflect on that sweet little face. And I have to tell you it really does get a little easier. I just always wished it would happen all at once! Two kids in elementary school has been so much more fun that it is starting to make me look forward to the teen years with anticipation. Surely, it must just keep getting better!

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